I've always preferred honesty about expectations over months of guessing games. Every profile started looking like it was written by the same three people. All I wanted was a conversation that survived the move from chat to actual plans. I took a chance on this
sugar dating site and my expectations went from 'why bother' to 'why not'. The chapter is still being written, but it started better than the last one. For once I get to be the example and not the exception.